Our parents are our first and foremost authorities.
One of the main performance barriers that prevent people from creating what they desire seems to be their perception of someone else’s authority, allowing or not allowing them to be who they are. It is natural that, most often, these are our parents, or someone important in our upbringing, before age 7. Most of our unconscious patterns are created during this period.
Since we depend entirely on the adults who care for us during this time, we unconsciously submit to what they allow, forbid, or command us. It has been defaulted to be an essential part of upbringing to provide conditions. Well, what do you do with this child if he doesn’t listen to a word or good advice? In the beginning, most of the parents try to talk and explain why one or the other must be done, or on the contrary, it should not be done under any circumstances. But these children don’t always listen. Parents, however, have their own patterns in their subconscious, which have become established, and when they are tired, it is pretty easy to present the conditions to the children.
As a parent myself, I am no exception. I have also told my children that if you don’t listen to me, you won’t get cartoons. And so on. Sometimes even quite emotional, which is a normal process of creating a subconscious program.
I am not proud of it, nor do I justify it, but rather try to point out that it is a natural and normal phenomenon. We can all slip up and pass our programs on to our children.
We continue to internalize our parents’ commands and prohibitions even as adults.
But it is necessary to know that often these programs continue their conditional life even later when this child is already an adult. If some conditions have been multiplied many times, there is no longer a need for a physical person to continue them. We ourselves multiply it to ourselves in our subconscious.
And so it is easy to happen that if we were forbidden a lot as a child, for example, ice cream, then we deny it to ourselves in the future. There is always a program going on in our inner dialogue, I can’t afford it, or it’s not good for me, I’m not allowed to eat it, and so on. Even if now I can freely afford it.
After all, ice cream is a questionable thing, maybe it is not really beneficial for your body, but thanks to the subconscious program, you do not have the freedom to decide for yourself. This program decides for you.
Eating or not eating ice cream does not affect your life very much, but the worse story is if these programs are related to emotional feeling patterns based on how you create the situations and events of your life.
Subconscious programs influence our choices and life decisions
For example, when you were a child, your mother or father did not allow you to communicate with boys. So now you (for some reason) do not succeed in creating a meaningful relationship because, subconsciously, the program hammers that I am not allowed to communicate with the opposite sex and create close relationships with them.
Or your father has constantly told you that rich people are proud and arrogant! So now you cannot become rich yourself, even if you want to, because there is a program in the subconscious mind that wealth is directly related to pride and arrogance. But now you can’t create wealth for yourself either because if you don’t want to be proud and arrogant, then wealth is also excluded because, in your subconscious, they are tied to your wax. This is just one program that could prevent you from becoming wealthy. There could be plenty of others that could be tracked easily with the HHOS method.
A woman couldn´t get pregnant because of her mothers programming when she was a teenager
And to give you more examples, I know a woman whose terrified mother told her very emotionally that she would watch out for getting pregnant. She kept telling her how dangerous it would be for her and that it would be the most considerable risk in her life. She didn’t have any health issues. Her mother was just so scared of her ruining her life with that.
And really, getting pregnant as a teenager can make life very difficult. But when this woman was an adult, she wanted to have a family and have children. Now it was challenging for her to get pregnant because, in her subconscious, there was a program that pregnancy is the most dangerous thing that can happen. She wanted to have a child, but this unconscious program given by her mother, which had already been forgotten and came out in the HHOS session, erased the possibility of having a child. Because the subconscious and the ego do everything to protect us, especially when it comes to danger and survival. And because the subconscious mind doesn’t recognize time. There is no time. It doesn’t separate the past or future from now. Everything just is.
So the body is brilliant and skillful, creating such a situation with the subconscious mind that the egg does not fertilize. And the doctors can’t find anything wrong because there isn’t one physically. However, sometimes the body can also create physical symptoms.
If you have given away your authority, which continues as an adult, you cannot decide what is allowed to you and what is not for your entire life until you become aware of it.
Take responsibility, connect with your power, and be your own authority.
These programs can be erased from the subconscious mind and replaced with new, supportive thoughts. You can try the sentence: I am my ultimate authority! With this sentence, you restore what is rightfully yours: to decide your life! To decide what you do, what you desire or want, what you create, with whom, where, and how you communicate. You can create again at the level of the heart because the fear of what will happen if you don’t do what was expected of you as a child no longer rules over you.
It seems strange that in what sense we cannot decide as adults what and how we do. But in reality, I see it surprisingly often. Yes, we are no longer forbidden by our parents, but this program acts as an inner voice on the level of thoughts. It can work because we are not aware of it. It is worth starting to notice our thoughts and emotions. Then we also start to notice how we sabotage ourselves.
In other words, decide that you are your highest authority and make decisions based on your inner feelings. That way, you can create what is really important to you and what draws your soul and heart.
It’s time to give decision-making power to your heart and leave external authorities to be.
